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Day 4: Offer Someone a Heartfelt Compliment

Scripture: "So encourage each other and build each other up, just as you’re already doing." —1 Thessalonians 5:11



Reflection: Why do we offer compliments? Are they to make people feel good, or is there something deeper? Authentic compliments go beyond mere politeness; they serve as expressions of love and encouragement, showing others that we see and value them. Today, consider offering someone a compliment that’s deeply felt and specific. A sincere compliment can be powerful—it has the potential to lift someone’s spirit, affirm their worth, and strengthen your bond.


Think about someone you know who may need encouragement or recognition, and let your words come from the heart. If we allow our compliments to be genuine and thoughtful, they reflect the love we’re meant to show one another as God’s creation. By building each other up, we contribute to a more positive and compassionate community.


 

Scriptural Study: In 1 Thessalonians 5:1-11, Paul’s encouragement to “build each other up” comes in the context of waiting for the light, hope, and transformation that God’s love brings. Just as the Thessalonians were called to be people of the day—people who embody light and love—we, too, are called to be reflections of encouragement in the world. Compliments, when sincere, become a small but impactful way to live out this calling, showing others that they’re valued in our community and by God.


In the early church, building each other up was essential to strengthening the faith and resilience of the community. Paul’s call reminds us that affirming one another is a powerful way to embody God’s care and compassion, especially in challenging times. Each time we compliment someone sincerely, we participate in this sacred work of building community and sharing light.


Optional Extended Reading: 1 Thessalonians 5:1-11 

In this passage, Paul encourages the believers in Thessalonica to remain vigilant and hopeful, standing firm in faith as people of the day, called to shine the light of God’s love in a world that can often feel dark. Paul’s words remind them—and us—to support one another through words and actions. He encourages the community to build each other up, seeing their unity as a source of strength and encouragement. By embracing this mutual support, the Thessalonians are reminded to encourage each other consistently, reflecting God’s steadfast love.


Paul’s message here isn’t just about complimenting one another—it’s about embodying a way of life that honors others through words that uplift, encourage, and inspire. In a world that often leaves us feeling overlooked or undervalued, we are called to see and honor the divine light in each person we meet. Each compliment we offer can serve as a small reminder of that light, helping people feel seen, appreciated, and connected


 

Reflection Questions:

  1. Who in your life could use a heartfelt compliment today?

  2. Think about a time when someone offered you a sincere compliment—how did it make you feel, and why was it meaningful?

  3. How might offering sincere words of encouragement strengthen your relationships and deepen your connection to your community?

  4. What does it mean to you to "build others up," and how can you make it a daily practice?


 

Prayer: God of encouragement, help me to be a source of light and joy for others today. May the words I speak be sincere and uplifting, a true reflection of Your love and affirmation. Open my eyes to the beauty in others, and teach me to honor it through my words. Guide me to build others up, bringing encouragement and hope to all I encounter. Amen.


 

Call to Action:Today, we invite you to share in the comments below who you chose to compliment, how it made you feel, and how it seemed to impact the other person. Let’s spread the joy of encouraging words!


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